Course Description

ONLY for those who are age 37 or above (must be unmarried)

Individuals or early-stage couples age 37 or above are invited to this online study group course to explore the practical application of the Bahá’í teachings for healthy relationships and marriage! Participants do self-directed study of the course content (documents, videos, worksheets...) on their own prior to each group session to be ready for the discussions. The facilitators can serve you and assist you with things such as setting goals, answering questions related to your circumstances, and encouraging you. Personal study and group meetings will aid you in learning about yourself, what is important to discover in a partner, and how to create a healthy relationship. Participants may find it helpful to be familiar with the Bahá’í Faith (bahai.org).

Course Schedule and Meeting Times

The course begins July 13, 2025, and it ends about August 31, 2025. A discussion group will meet weekly on Sundays, 1-3 p.m. US Eastern time. Note: Time zones are complex. To check your time vs. the meeting time throughout the course, these websites may help (put Miami or New York City in for the meeting time): https://www.worldtimeserver.com/meeting-planner.aspx https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/meeting.html

Cost to Participate in the Course

Taking this course is one of many ways to step into the journey toward creating an eternal marriage relationship, something that requires commitment. This course invites you to commit time, effort, and money. We hope you can afford the cost of the course, as that helps cover the cost of the course platform and a small amount to the course coordinator and facilitators for their service. However, we recognize that many factors could make it difficult to afford the fee. We do not want financial difficulties to prevent registration. If you cannot afford part or all of the fee, there are coupon codes available to reduce it. Please be specific with how much you can afford or how much discount you need. Prior course participants are eligible for a 75% discount. Contact Susanne Alexander, course administrator, at [email protected] with your request.

Why Take This Course?

This course can guide you toward building a healthy, happy relationship that leads to marriage, and enhance your ability to succeed throughout the journey!

  • Learn

    Learn about yourself and about the Baha'i Faith's teachings on relationship and marriage topics.

  • Discover

    Discover new friends, meet like-minded individuals, and learn new relationship skills.

  • Empower

    Empower conversations on these important topics with peers and family members.

  • Calibrate

    Calibrate what to look for in a partner and how to get to know them, so that you can be intentional and purposeful in a relationship.

  • Gain Knowledge and Skills

    Service/Institute Process Elements: Gain knowledge and skills that may connect with or build on the learning in Ruhi Institute's Book 12 on “Family and Community” and “The Institution of Marriage”. Be more empowered with answering questions from junior youth about relationships.

Course curriculum

    1. Please Introduce Yourself!

    2. Course Orientation and Expectations

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    3. Course Meeting Information

    4. Join the WhatsApp Community!

    5. Processing the Content/Emotions; Counseling

    6. Frequently Asked Questions

    7. Change Notes for the Course

    1. Unit 1: Learning Goals; Study the Topic

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    2. Unit 1: Diving into the Bahá’í Teachings

    3. Unit 1: Activities

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    4. Unit 1 Activity: “Building a ‘Fortress for Well-being’, an Essay on Marriage Preparation” (PDF)

    5. Unit 1 Activity: PrepSheet 3 PDF-Assessing and Understanding My Virtues

    6. Unit 1 Activity: PrepSheet 4 PDF-My Virtue Development Plan

    7. Unit 1: Videos

    8. Unit 1: Questions: Individual Reflection, Discussion Postings, and Group Consultation

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    9. Unit 1: Optional Extra Reading

    10. Unit 1 Optional: Do You Have a Tail? Essay (PDF)

    1. Unit 2: Learning Goals; Study the Topic

    2. Unit 2: Diving into the Bahá’í Teachings

    3. Unit 2: Activities

    4. Unit 2 Activity: Seek and Avoid in a Partner

    5. Unit 2: Videos and Podcast

    6. Unit 2: Questions: Individual Reflection, Discussion Postings, and Group Consultation

    7. Unit 2: Optional Extra Reading

    8. Unit 2 Optional: Buffalo Wing Principle Essay (PDF)

    1. Unit 3: Learning Goals; Study the Topic

    2. Unit 3: Diving into the Bahá’í Teachings

    3. Unit 3: Activities

    4. Unit 3 Activity: Happiness, Joy, Laughter, and Humor (PDF)

    5. Unit 3: Videos

    6. Unit 3: Questions: Individual Reflection, Discussion Postings, and Group Consultation

    7. Unit 3: Optional Extra Reading

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    1. Please share your thoughts and experiences; Anything we can assist with?

    1. Unit 4: Learning Goals; Study the Topic

    2. Unit 4: Diving into the Bahá’í Teachings

    3. Marriage Tablet (attributed to 'Abdu'l-Baha)

    4. Unit 4: Activities

    5. Unit 4: Videos

    6. Unit 4: Questions: Individual Reflection, Forum Postings, and Group Consultation

    7. Unit 4: Optional Extra Reading

    8. Unit 4 Optional: Being a Cross-Cultural Couple Essay (PDF)

    9. Unit 4 Optional: Intercultural Maturity Essay (PDF)

About this course

  • $75.00
  • 80 lessons
  • 0 hours of video content

From Our Learners!

“I'm really enjoying the course. The various materials are informative and rich, though not too overwhelming; it seems to be the right amount for me. The discussions in course are also great and leave me reflecting on many things. Overall, I'm glad to be in this course. It's exactly the sort of thing I was looking for.”

Amir S.

“A loving space to reflect on the essence of what it means to be in a relationship. What a joy it was to connect with different souls with like-minded intentions of creating healthy relationships in their lives.”

Participant in January 2025 Course

“I really felt that I expanded my understanding of myself and healthy relationship-building processes through this course. The breadth and depth of the information we studied, and the opportunity for new connections via the group really was a glimmer of joy and hope when sometimes finding a partner feels so difficult. And while growth also is challenging, I feel important questions were raised that we had the opportunity to tackle in a loving group.”

Participant in January 2025 Course

Registrar/Course Creator

Susanne M. Alexander

Relationship and Marriage Educator and Coach; Course Developer and Administrator

Hi, I’m Susanne M. Alexander, your course creator and companion on this learning journey. While I am a Relationship and Marriage Educator and Coach, I’ve also had a lot of experience. I’ve likely walked in your shoes. I’ve been single, dating, engaged, married, divorced, and widowed (currently married). I am a child, stepchild, sibling, step-sibling, parent, step-parent, grandparent, and step-grandparent. All of this has given me a diversity of experience to share! I meet with clients globally via the Internet for relationship preparation and navigating, marriage preparation, and couple relationship or marriage strengthening. I coordinate the faculty team and am the lead instructor here at Transformation Learning Center (www.transformationlearningcenter.com). My company is Marriage Transformation®, www.marriagetransformation.com, where I am President and also the author and publisher of numerous books. Books authored or coauthored include Couple Vitality, Creating Excellent Relationships, All-in-One Marriage Prep, Marriage Can Be Forever--Preparation Counts!, and Re-Vitalizing Our Marriage. I am certified by Prepare-Enrich to offer a research-based assessment to couples at any stage and accompany them through learning about themselves and their readiness for the next stage in their relationship (www.prepare-enrich.com) I'm also certified to offer the Character Foundations Assessment and have Completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I'm a member of the National Alliance for Relationship and Marriage Education. Media and Writing Experience: Quoted as an expert in Upjourney.com, HerCampus.com, eHow.com, Washington Woman, Ladies Home Journal, Inc., and more. I'm also a journalist with a background in freelancing for Newsweek, SimpleMarriage, and many others. I have been creating and offering online relationship and marriage courses for over 10 years.

Course Coordinator

Wendi Momen

Coordinator

Hi, I’m Wendi Momen, a social activist and a champion of the equal rights and responsibilities of women and men. I’ve been married since 1971 and have two adult children and two adult grandchildren. I grew up in a family of entertainers in the San Fernando Valley, California, and moved by myself to England when I was 18. I had a step-father and two step-mothers, and have a step-sister and two half sisters. Our extended family embraces 26 nationalities and 8 religions. The diversity of our family has given me insights into a number of cultures and ethnicities, has convinced me that humanity is just one big family, living on one planet. I served as a criminal magistrate, a family court judge and youth court magistrate for 38 years, which gave me insights into the dynamics of marriages and families when they are unhealthy and often dangerous to their children. This caused me to concentrate on how to enable marriages and families to embrace healthier patterns of life. I have taught numerous online courses on marriage and family life, am the author of 13 books, and sit on a number of boards that champion women, human rights and the planet, including the National Alliance of Women’s Organisations, Widows Rights International, UK Civil Society Women’s Alliance, Ethical Business Building the Future and the International Environment Forum (iefworld.org). I hold a PhD in International Relations from the London School of Economics, of which I am a Governor Emeritus. I was honoured to be awarded a MBE by Queen Elizabeth in 2014 for services to the UN Entity for Gender Equality and the Empowerment of Women and to the community in Bedfordshire.

Course Facilitator

Jackie Najafian

Facilitator

Jackie Najafian is a Solution-Focused Therapist and licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in North Carolina in the United States. She works with couples in need in most areas; marriage issues during and after an affair, family issues, work balance, childhood trauma, depression, anxiety…. She is married and has two adult children. +1.704-576-4935 [email protected]